With all the Kpop fans cheering about cupcakKe’s suicide note on twitter, remember the common denominator isn’t kpop it’s anti blackness. They want to be racist and have found a socially acceptable means to do so by saying they are fans of kpop. Kpop doesn’t make people disgustingly racist, anti blackness does.
And before anyone goes “no one thinks kpop does this” I’ve seen, and even reblogged a few, posts that specifically attack kpop fans over the incident that frame the issue as if being a kpop fan makes you racist. People are calling out liking kpop and not misygonior as the reason why they are being disgusting to cupcakKe.
i wonder how many “hey guys are super hot no homo tho hahaha” type guys would identify as bisexual if male bisexuality was talked about more often and not like… ignored and forgotten about
I had a strongly Christian underclassman tell me that he and his girlfriend would both be a bit into boys and girls, respectively, if it was more accepted. He nervously described himself as bicurious when he spoke to me, an openly bi guy. I was thinking out loud and mentioned that I thought that being bicurious… wasn’t necessarily a thing, for lack of a better phrase, because if someone was attracted to the same gender, even if they’re attracted more to another one, they’re still bi. He kind of looked surprised and said, “oh. I guess I’m bi then.”
Let men and boys be bi. Encourage men and boys to explore their sexualities. Don’t tell them off for being affectionate, whether platonically or not, and don’t insist that they’re gay.
yknow what, im gonna get on my soapbox for a second
ray toro would have been considered a guitar legend if mcr wasnt written off as a shitty emo band, he would have been known as one of the best guitar players of our time if mcr had been percieved as idk, a classic rock band. im pissed over the fact that he doesnt get the respect he deserves and im sick of people writing him off as lousy bc they cant get over the fact that hes an amazing guitarist and mcr was a good band
the range of styles that ray toro not only plays well, but easily transition to and from is absolutely amazing, which comes from years of hard work and should be acknowledged as such. the guitar solo in any mcr song slaps across the board bc ray knows how to write a song and execute the solos well and the dismissal of him is absolutely criminal. the fact that he has played with brian may and held his own is stupendous. i know im not getting my point across bc i cant type what im trying to say but honestly, raymond toro deserved way better than what he was given
MeganFox—I grew up craving the spotlight and once it happened I immediately recoiled. Up until the very moment it happened I was really outgoing. Now I’m really introverted. I thought that I would love it, that this was the kind of life I wanted, that everyone wanted. And it’s not all that it seems.
no matter how ‘mature’ u think u are when ur under 18….like u will have a fkn revelation in ur 20s about how naive and different you were………….even if ur like the most experienced teenager it doesnt matter……………its bizarre to me that Anyone in their early 20s could ever be attracted to someone younger than them…those few years r packed full of the most formative shit in establishing ur personality and identity and its fkn gross that anyone could see someone in that vulnerable process and think yeah this is my equal despite me being at a completely different stage of life than you. like what the fuck. its always guys who feel so inadequate so are seeking 2 be idolised by someone younger who doesnt have enough experience to know just how pathetic that person is
and especially cos when ur in highschool/just fresh out of there ur still in that ‘adults have authority over me’ childlike state of mind that has been drilled into you and u havent had a chance 2 dismantle that thru experiences such as uni or tafe or jobz (or just simply losing ur status as a highschool student) which allows u to feel like ur own person and an adult in society etccc
